Utopia?
I fielded a call from a wonderful middle school student from Ohio; doing research on Utopian societies for a project. It got me thinking… are we Utopia?
Have you ever lived, learned, worked, and managed with another person? 23 other people? We do it everyday, and to say that no one’s feelings never get hurt or that conflict never arises is… a hopeful future, at best. But we value open and honest communication and with no where to hide, problems are met head on.
Acorn is bulging at the seams with people. I heard one member say today “the thing about having this many people around means there’s always someone in the bathroom”. Ain’t it the truth. Not only are nearly all of our rooms full, but it’s getting too be cold outside so we’re all seeking refuge in heated common buildings. As the busy season kicks off with the creation of the new seed catalog, the space may seem to be shrinking.
But if that’s the worst of our problems, maybe we are closing in on Utopia. We share the income that the business generates along with all the chores (business and domestic). We value all work equally (1 hour of work= 1 hour of work). I’ve been thinking of this in particular lately. Many of my friends’ mothers (and many of my friends by now!) are working full time domestically, and how much stigma that holds in our society. By domestic work, I mean the work which traditionally is done at one’s home like raising children, household accounting, cleaning, cooking. etc. Does the stigma exist because this position generates no income, in a capitalist society? Is it because these types of chores have historically been done by women, thus binding them to an income-producing family member (like a husband), and creating a patriarchal hierarchy? Ideally, a community would come together and treat each person equally. And each person would have access to the resources they need, rather than an arbitrary allotment of resources based on flawed ideals of evaluated worth. These are paradigms we are constantly breaking through, to become a more egalitarian community.
Furthermore, when living with so many people there is definitely buying power. What I mean is, we buy everything in bulk, from soap to cheese. Which means we can make our income stretch much further and we need fewer resources.
We have time here. Living in mainstream society, I never had time. Now, since I have a work quota of 6 hours a day (which includes 2 home-cooked meals and a clean living area), I find myself with plenty of time to hike or philosophize. I’m not constantly rushing around. I’m rarely late (accept sometimes to get packages to the post office). We grow or make from scratch almost all of our food. We buy or barter for local meat, produce, etc. We have apple and pear sauces right now, yummy! Not to mention Fox’s Mediterranean dinner served last night!!
Life is good. Really good. But like everything else, it’s all a state of mind. Because there can be conflict or peace in any situation. When you love your community and its members, any mountain is merely a molehill.
Posted: November 3rd, 2010 under Uncategorized.
Comments
Comment from Devon
Time November 3, 2010 at 4:14 pm
Your words on Utopia–soothing. I’ve been following Acorn for 3 years now (along with some other favorites around the country), and appreciate your candor. My partner and I work with a tiny bit of permaculture on a 1/4 acre homestead and do our best to be stewards of Earth…it’s encouraging to receive and take in your news and comments. There’s a tendency to feel alone with missions like ours, but we’re far from it! Keeping up with Acorn is a gentle and inspiring reminder. Thanks. Peace and Good Will, Devon
Comment from Dr Tex Rhino
Time November 3, 2010 at 6:29 pm
conflict is the meat of life
without how would we ever grow n learn?
Comment from Killian
Time November 4, 2010 at 3:19 pm
We came to Detroit hoping to build a resilient community in the city, not quite as interdependent as Acorn, but with the same sense of belonging and cooperation for the good of the community. It’s hard to get people so tuned into the current paradigm to understand the higher quality of life egalitarian, essentially tribal structures afford.
Your post is a very gentle example of what is possible. Nice. I think it can speak to those one might not think of as open to such a lifestyle. Hope you don’t mind me posting it on Facebook.
Comment from Will
Time November 6, 2010 at 9:07 am
I love getting news from Acorn. Inspiring and hopeful. Best wishes
Comment from sylvia levy
Time November 6, 2010 at 4:31 pm
Here is another aspect of unpaid domestic work,it doesn’t count towards social securitity benefits. One more way women losse out in a capitalist society. I admire you all so much.
Comment from Oyeama
Time February 17, 2011 at 1:15 pm
Very well said! Open communication and emotional honesty or essential for human evolution…or for the sake of harmony. Gosh… i just want to be there! Thanks Acorn!

Comment from Jamie
Time November 3, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Love all your updates, I hope to see first hand one day soon! Keep up the good work & enjoying life!